🌺 They pull away right when things start getting deeper. Sometimes the stronger the feelings get, the more overwhelmed they become. 🌺 They act like they don’t care but still keep tabs on you. Watching your stories, checking your page, asking about you, or finding little ways to see what you’re doing. 🌺 They come back after periods of distance. Once the pressure is gone and they actually start feeling your absence, that’s when they tend to circle back. 🌺 They get weird when they think you’re moving on. Suddenly they’re watching more, liking things, popping back up, or finding excuses to talk. 🌺 They still have an emotional reaction to you. Jealousy, defensiveness, curiosity, acting cold, acting overly unbothered. Indifference is usually a lot quieter. 🌺 They want closeness but get uncomfortable once they have it. They miss you when you’re gone, then feel overwhelmed when you’re close again. That push-pull is exactly what makes dealing with an avoidant so confusing. This is why chasing usually makes it worse. Give them enough space to actually feel your absence. Flip the switch and have them obsessing over you instead of chasing them. Do the Bowcat Method before bed. This technique is literally a manifestation life hack when it comes to bringing back your partner after a breakup, no matter how stubborn or avoidant they are. The results you guys have been getting from this are absolutely crazy. If you don’t know how to do the technique yet, it’s at the top of my page. Do it for 3 nights, save this, then come back and tell me what happens. You’re going to be pleasantly surprised. 👀 #avoidantattachment #nocontact #breakup #reconciliation #bowcatmethod