https://www.oolfa.com/blog/marriage-advice/muslim-questions-to-ask-before-marriage/ Questions to ask Finances: does he have any debt? What’s his job? If he couldn’t keep up with expenses once married what does he plan to do? - [ ] Listen to what he says and is it realistic or is it purely naive - [ ] Does he expect you to work and pay bills? If yes, will he help around the house too or will you have two jobs? - [ ] Will he carry financial responsibility for his family? Will any of the brothers also assist? - [ ] Is he on payment plan for any debt? How long has he been paying it off. - [ ] If his job is some project he’s working on…. Usually a red flag and has nothing to show for it. His family - [ ] What does he expect from you when it comes to his family? - [ ] Does he expect you to go visit every week? - [ ] Or constantly be by his mom? - [ ] Does he expect you to always be ready to make azoomeh even if it’s already night time? What does he expect in his wife? - [ ] What does he expect from a wife? - [ ] What’s a good wife to him? - [ ] What responsibility will you have to carry? Kids - [ ] Will he help out with kids? - [ ] If family is far, will he help out with caring for child when he can? - [ ] Does he understand anything about postpartum? The difficulties that come with that and to be gentle? - [ ] When you have a child, will you do a akeeka and who will cook the food? #fypシ゚viral #foryoupageofficiall #muslimtiktok #arabtiktok #marriageadvice