Evolving from a kodependent relationship into interdependence requires you to improve. Interdependent relationships, or kamplementary partnerships, aren't the realm for spiritual and and self-improvement bypassers. This is the zone of kontextual intelligence, emotional safety, emotional trust, Ma'atic alignment, Ma'atic vulnerability, and emotional intelligence. You gotta know how to be impeccable with your words and thoughts in this zone. You have to know how to resolve konflict, avert Isfet, and kammunicate at this level. It's a higher level. It's the level worth rising to. Why would anyone who truly loves their partner want anything less?