A boundaries post I’m afraid I cannot reply to direct messages about personal circumstances of domestic abuse and staking. I have ptsd and I’m retired for a reason and need to protect myself but I genuinely want to help at a safe distance. I will share my experience, knowledge and advice as much as I can and reply to all comments but will not answer direct messages I will always maintain you l have to put your trust in the police. Most people are good. The stalking charities Suzy Lamplugh and Paladin can help victims of stalking