they always say they want a fun girl... until they meet one for real. I'm 19, love food way too much, train like a beast at the gym, travel every chance i get, and yeah, i have an OF. sounds fun, right? but dating? it's a nightmare. guys love to flirt, they love the fantasy, they love watching... but when it comes to actually being with someone like me, they all fold. suddenly i'm "not girlfriend material" just because i built my own path and make my own money? i'm loyal, playful, and actually want something real, but instead i get judged for doing OF while they follow 50 other girls doing the same. i'm tired of the games. i'm just a girl who loves food, squats heavy, and wants someone who actually sees me. is that really too much to ask? #travelchick #foodlover #ofgirls #datingstruggles #realtalk #gymlife #arizona #maine