How often should couples be having sex? Once a week? A few times a month? More? Less? Here’s the better question: Do you both feel connected and satisfied with the intimacy in your relationship? There is no magic number that makes a relationship healthy. Intimacy can look different from couple to couple, and it is not only about sex. Affection, touch, quality time, communication, feeling wanted, and making an effort to connect all matter. So instead of comparing your relationship to what you think other couples are doing, ask each other: “Do you feel connected to me lately?” “What makes you feel most loved or desired?” “Is there something you wish we did more of?” Those conversations can tell you a lot more than a number ever will. #IntimacyConversations #CouplesCheckIn #RelationshipIntimacy #ConnectedCouples #TalkAboutSex