I talk about this more in-depth in my blog linked in my bio! (It's a Substack, for those of you who know what that is.) If you’re interested in supporting me, that’s where you can do it :) I mention this at the end of the video, but I just want to express one more time that if this type of boundary is not an option for you for one reason or another, that does NOT make you a bad friend, a bad partner, or a bad person. The purpose of this video isn’t to say that everyone should adopt this boundary, that everyone should accept this boundary from others, or that everyone will benefit from it. Rather, it’s to make it known that this is an OPTION to those who CAN benefit from it. It’s okay if a friendship with a person who has this type of boundary would not work for you. Again, this isn’t a flaw on your end. We all benefit from different types of friendships in our lives. This is simply what I personally benefit from, and something I wanted to introduce as an option to others. #relationships #dating #wlw #lesbian #psychology